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Defensiveness: Relationship Killer!
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. So often I see that people have the chronic issue of being defensiveness in their responses. This can really put a damper on relationships both personally and professionally. Usually this superiority oriented...
Are You Putting People in a Box?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Are you not allowing the past to go? So often people have conflict with family members in the distant past. They forever more keep rigidly defined opinions about these people. There is a refusal to allow for...
2009: The Year of the Ox: Being Solid Amidst the Turmoil!
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. This year is a year for hope and solidness. It is true that we do not have control over much. But what we do have control over is our thoughts, our feelings and our perspectives. Grounding and solidness need to...
How To Avoid Relapsing On Your New Year’s Resolution
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria Every year people wind up totally disappointed with themselves because they were not able to maintain the promises that they made at New Years. Generally that relapse is happening due the rigid, almost military...
Tools to Cope with Social Anxiety
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria I get many questions about social anxiety. It can be quite crippling. Here are some clear and effective tools to cope with this syndrome. Take notes because this works if you work it! Today I want to talk about...
Question: Should I leave my marriage?
Transcribed from my video at youtube.com/askvictoria A viewer asked me to help her because she is at her wit's end in her marriage and she is poised to leave it. She feels like a second class citizen in that her needs are never heard or met. I really want to address...
You are the STEAK of your life!
Transcribed from my video at youtube.com/askvictoria Societal and family messages are pervasively telling people that their life is less valuable without a partner or mate. That simply is not true. Your life is of value on its own simply because you are alive! Today's...
Embracing the Darkness Within
Transcribed from my video on youtube.com/askvictoria A Viewer wrote in regarding repetitive dysfunctional behaviour within her group of friends. Her dark side was making its presence known. Even though she is tempted to avoid this inner, painful exploration, it is in...
The Teacher Appears When The Student Is Ready
transcribed from my video on youtube.com/askvictoria Readiness to grow past one's blocks eludes so many. Being ready is what will draw toward you teachers and opportunities to help you grow and move past the negative pattern behaviours. Readiness requires that you be...
It’s All About Letting Go
transcribed from my youtube video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria 2:58 If you are holding on too tightly to anything in your life, good or bad, you are in effect saying to life "I do not trust in life." This in turn will draw toward you a mirror of that: Scarcity, lack...
