Let the journey begin…
If you find yourself here, it probably means you are ready for change. And I could not be more delighted that you have stopped by.
Hello, my name is Victoria Lorient-Faibish. I am a legacy professional with over a quarter of a century in experience. As a Registered Psychotherapist with a master’s degree and over 8 years of education in eastern based modalities, I guide adult individuals, couples, and companies as they become the heroes of their lives and organizations.
In addition to my traditional psychotherapy training, I have over 8 years of training in eastern philosophy body-centred modalities including Polarity Therapy, Reiki, New Decision Therapy and Craniosacral. I have created a unique blend of traditional talk therapy and eastern based modalities that work with the mind, the body and the soul. I call it Holistic Psychotherapy.
I use neural science as well as quantum physics to powerfully affect permanent and long-lasting change in an adult individual, couple or company.
My passions include writing and speaking. I am the author of 2 game changing books AND I am a mind blowing and entertaining Keynote Speaker that uses comedy, knowledge and compassion to facilitate the disruption of multi-generational patterns that compromise success and harmony.
As you make your way through these pages, you will find free content including articles, videos, guided meditation as well as tools that you can take home like my books and courses so you can work on yourself in your own time frame. Enjoy and I look forward to connecting soon!
Featured Links
Be Who You Needed: The caring adult's guide to helping young people transform their emotional well-being, self-confidence, & happiness
Finding Your Authentic Inner Voice - Massenergy
Wake up call | Finding Your Bliss
Finding Your Self-Culture
Vitality Magazine | Winter Issue 2022 On Page 22 my article on tips to overcome anxiety
From Trauma To Tiumph! My new book Colab! Pre Order
Finding Your Bliss Interview on Zoomer Radio!
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Stop dimming your light!
Rewire your brain!
Healthy dating, marriage, friendships, life!!
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Today is the day that you declare that #YOUMATTER
What’s Your Part: The Toxic Situation
You know you can take the high road when you’re involved in a toxic conflict. You can work on your trigger system to not play in the same toxic sandbox that they are in. for the past three decades I’ve worked as a holistic psychotherapist with a lot of people who are involved in divorces and I always have to remind them that all of this anger that becomes incredibly Insidious is majorly impacting you and your health as well as your children if you have any. The thing is, even if you’re dealing with a narcissist, there are many ways to work with a narcissist when involved in a conflict with them that doesn’t involve destroying yourself. And that’s important to learn. Becoming the same as them and having a “winning / vindictive” mindset is not going to help your physical, emotional, spiritual being, nor does it help the kids, nor does it help outcomes. Take the high road. yet don’t be a doormat and keep your boundaries clear and learn techniques like gray rocking and not biting the bait when you’re dealing with a narcissist. #divorce #dontbetoxic #takethehighroad #dontbitethebait #selfcare #boundaries
Brand New Book!
From Trauma to Triumph: Real life stories from 12 powerful women to help you overcome your history and thrive (Heal Yourself First)
We all experience trauma sooner or later. It can be small, repeated events or life-changing in-your-face events. Sometimes it is visible and people can empathize, but so often it is hidden away and we feel all alone and overwhelmed.
A lot of our childhood trauma is ignored, normalized, or wiped from our memory. It does not mean it did not happen, nor does it mean we were unaffected. Every trauma, whether we were still small or whether it happened in our adult years, leaves an impact on us. It is our solemn duty to ourselves to become free from what directs our lives with invisible strings, and to empower ourselves by being fully aware of our own part to play in transforming our challenges into stepping stones that will take us towards thriving.
Some of us are more resilient, seemingly getting through trauma more easily than others. That is not how it really is. It is just that some of us have learned better tools with which to navigate this unpredictable world we live in.
This book is your doorway to finding support, getting to know others who have been through the same experiences as you, and starting to use the tools and insights that moved our authors to new outlooks and abilities.
Use this book together with the free worksheet provided, and 12 bonus in-depth conversations with the authors for maximum benefit.
Finally! Victoria’s 1st best selling, ground breaking book is available as an Audio Book!
Now you can listen while driving, cooking or whenever you like!
What does it mean to actually find your “Self-Culture”?
If you have not yet found your self-culture—your authentic, instinctive self—you are not living the life the universe intends for you. The planet needs the real you, and it is time that you began the journey! The pursuit of self-culture is a hard one for many of us, and I have unlimited compassion for those who embark on this path.
What is your inner voice saying? What makes your heart happy? What brings you joy? Who is your real self? What path are you on? And what do you want out of your life? You need to know the answers to these questions to live your life in the best way you can. The quest for your self-culture is not a narcissistic, futile, self-indulgent pursuit. It is vital to your well-being.
Victoria’s 2nd book! Connecting: Rewire Your Relationship-Culture (Manor House Publishing) Do it! Heal multigenerational relationship dysfunction.
Renown author and TV personality, Dini Petty wrote the forward to the book and says:
“This book would have made my journey shorter and easier. It will guide you through your family matrix, into dating in the modern world, how to spot relationship dysfunction from the start and finally lead you into healthy relationships and enduring marriages.”
Transform
Together we work to facilitate you finding your authentic inner voice.
Holistic Psychotherapy
As a relationship expert, the work I do with either individuals or couples is an elegant mixture of traditional talk therapy combined with different holistic eastern based modalities to achieve balance, wholeness and transformation. Together we will bring forth your “Self-Culture”, heal your “Relationship-Culture” and neutralize any dysfunction in your “Family-Culture”.
Talks & Seminars
So delighted to be able to bring my knowledge and expertise as a keynote speaking to your event or conference. I love engaging audiences with my style of communication which includes comedy, compassion and getting right to the heart of the matter!
Online Courses
What a miracle technology is! From the comfort of your own home you can access all of my course material! With a click of your mouse, you can jump into the land of inner transformation, relationship healing, self empowerment and so much more!
Books & CD
My books and CD set are resources for you to deepen your knowledge and support you as you change your patterns, habits and neural pathways both in your personal life and in your relationships. Keep them close at hand so you can stay true to your commitment to living your best life in all possible ways!
Latest Videos
Check out Victoria’s YouTube Channel (Courageous Conversations) with all her videos including some of her talks and interviews here!
Latest Articles
Check out Victoria’s articles with all the all videos of some of her talks and interviews here!
Stop Dimming Your Light -One Day Intensive
I know what it's like. Some of us learn to hide and dim to fit into our family-culture, I know I did. I am so familiar and vulnerably in touch with the journey that lead me and many of us to hide our real being, dim our light, say yes when we don't want to because...
There is a difference! Self-love or Self-Worth??
I really think it is time to Disrupt the old versions of self-love! Self-worth is so much better! So many people ask me how they can increase their self-esteem. I used to think the sure fire way was to set a small goal for yourself, accomplish it and feel your sense...
It is all you! Time to set your 2020 aspirations and intentions!
This year was transformational. The ideas, the creativity, the commitment to shining my light has been game changing. I created Courageous Conversations! A video podcast on Facebook, as well as a private support group. I have felt super connected with my community more than ever in 2019.
And so as we round out the year I am feeling very hopeful and enthused about 2020! Lots more connecting, speaking and shining my light widely is what is continuing and growing more and more. A foundation is being laid and built upon!
For me, the holidays have always been a time of mixed feelings. I love the light, the celebrations and the socializing. Yet it also sometimes brings on a feeling of dread… ya know.. family dynamics, obligatory dinners and the tired feeling of so much going on and the need for more down time. But I love this time nonetheless as I take it as a time to really set some focused and positive aspirations for the coming year. And I encourage you to do the same. Focus on the positive. Think about what you would like to manifest in the coming year!
Stop Dimming Your Light -One Day Intensive
I know what it's like. Some of us learn to hide and dim to fit into our family-culture, I know I did. I am so familiar and vulnerably in touch with the journey that lead me and many of us to hide our real being, dim our light, say yes when we don't want to because...
There is a difference! Self-love or Self-Worth??
I really think it is time to Disrupt the old versions of self-love! Self-worth is so much better! So many people ask me how they can increase their self-esteem. I used to think the sure fire way was to set a small goal for yourself, accomplish it and feel your sense...
