by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Sep 6, 2011 | Articles, Boundaries Work, Healthy Relationships and Friendships
Transcribed from my video at youtube.com/askvictoria. N writes in about his “Malicious Mother” who alienated him from his father for 25 years. He is now in the process of reconnecting with this part of his family that he was deprived of. His mother now has...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Sep 5, 2011 | Anxiety and Depression, Articles, Boundaries Work, Empowerment: Moving Beyond the Childhood
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. L is engaged to a man who has a previous family. He does not set boundaries and he is passive when it comes to dealing with his hurricane borderline personality adult daughter. She is in danger of completely...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Jul 11, 2011 | Articles, Boundaries Work, Empowerment: Moving Beyond the Childhood
Question Hi Ms. Lorient-Faibish I’m trying to overcome a fear I have with confrontation. When someone does or says something offensive to me, I have trouble voicing my feels to the person, because I usually fear the outcome. I worry about hurting the other...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Apr 11, 2011 | Articles, Boundaries Work
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Parents of adult children so often have a hard time letting go. Their expectations are dashed and they feel that they need to get in there and either save their adult kid or control the choices they make. The...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Feb 21, 2011 | Articles, Boundaries Work
A reader wrote a letter to me asking how she could stop being so affected by her mother who is depressed, critical and manipulative. I would like to share with you my thoughts through showing you the letter and also my advice to overcome this pattern of constant...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Nov 12, 2010 | Articles, Boundaries Work
In Canada’s multi cultural landscape, the question “Where are you from?” is a common one as we Canadians are fortunate to have embedded in our very matrix the ability to maintain our country of origin’s culture while also meshing with the Canadiana flavours. We are...
