by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Sep 6, 2011 | Articles, Boundaries Work, Healthy Relationships and Friendships
Transcribed from my video at youtube.com/askvictoria. N writes in about his “Malicious Mother” who alienated him from his father for 25 years. He is now in the process of reconnecting with this part of his family that he was deprived of. His mother now has...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Sep 5, 2011 | Anxiety and Depression, Articles, Boundaries Work, Empowerment: Moving Beyond the Childhood
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. L is engaged to a man who has a previous family. He does not set boundaries and he is passive when it comes to dealing with his hurricane borderline personality adult daughter. She is in danger of completely...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Jul 11, 2011 | Articles, Empowerment: Moving Beyond the Childhood
Commitment phobia is a very painful experience both for the one who engages in the pattern and for those who are involved with that person. Usually the art of pushing and pulling and seduction are the domain of the commitment “phobe.” The answer dwells...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Jul 11, 2011 | Articles, Boundaries Work, Empowerment: Moving Beyond the Childhood
Question Hi Ms. Lorient-Faibish I’m trying to overcome a fear I have with confrontation. When someone does or says something offensive to me, I have trouble voicing my feels to the person, because I usually fear the outcome. I worry about hurting the other...
by Victoria Lorient-Faibish | Jul 11, 2011 | Articles, Healthy Relationships and Friendships
Dear Victoria, I recently met someone who is becoming a very important part of my life. I’ve never had such a strong connection with anyone before. I know I’m not in love but I do care about him a lot. I’m scared because I’ve never...