Articles
How Do I Deal With Jealousy in a Love Relationship?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Viewer Question about dealing with Jealousy in her happy and loving relationship. Unwarranted jealousy in a good relationship can quickly destroy it. One needs to look within for the answers to this difficult...
How Does One Leave an Unhappy 40-Year Marriage?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. A viewer question has come in about her mother who has been in a very unhappy marriage. Mrs. S has expressed a desire to leave for a very long time. She needs to begin with baby steps and to surround herself...
How To Fight the Winter Blues Naturally
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. The winter can plague us all with the lack of light and the cold. Here are some sure fire tips to help you handle the winter blues. Today's topic is a really important one, in order to fight the winter blues....
The Two Voices Within
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Not everyone is aware that there is a second voice other than your brain that you can choose to speak from. That is the soul's voice. You know you are in that voice when you are less fearful and less...
Why can’t I love him the way he loves me?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria Tanya is married (but now separated) to a man who cannot respect her boundaries and who is basically stalking her in the form of copious declarations of love and compliments. It has become violent now and the...
Neural Pathways: The Biology of Change
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Understanding that the brain biology is implicated in patterns of behaviour and beliefs is a crucial piece in initiating transformation. The newer patterns of behaviour and beliefs are like footpaths compared...
My Alcoholic Husband and I
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Tina wrote in about her husband who is an alcoholic who has graduated from beer to hard liquor and who persists in berating her and humiliating her. They have been married for 5 years and they have a 22 month...
Boundaries: Healthy and Unhealthy
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Ask Victoria: Get a note pad because this one is chock a block full of info!! So many have no idea as to what kind of boundaries they are using. This longer video has many examples... So sit back and take...
Narcissistic Parent: Collateral Damage
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Being the child of a parent who has narcissistic personality disorder or is simply a narcissist is extremely challenging. The person grows up deferring to the parent as the main person in the room always. They...
Are You Choosing Partners Who Mirror Your Parents?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Is your partner just like your mom or your dad? If so, this is very common. If the relationship growing up with the family of origin was good then great but if it was not, you may be repeating those same...