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How Do I Get Over My Mother Anger?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Anna experienced an emotionally withholding mother and now finds herself projecting her anger on to her adult love relationships. She also attracts emotionally unavailable men into her life. This video is about...
Should I leave her if she loves him more?
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. A viewer asks whether or not he should stay in a relationship in which his girlfriend has admitted she loves someone else more. His self esteem and the lack thereof is the real issue. Today I'm answering a...
Demanding Too Much Too Soon!
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. So often in relationships it seems that women tend to give over their power, their space and their dignity as soon as they are with a man. Patterns of wanting too much too soon ensues and the relationship...
Intercultural Marriage… Help!
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Sarah has written in about her intercultural marriage and the immense meddling of her in laws. The couple has not established good boundaries and have left themselves very open to having their life choices...
The Benefits of Meditation
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. Meditation has so many benefits including focusing the mind, creating perspective and so much more. Visit my other website: www.visualizationworks.com and try a free guided meditation with my voice and...
Thriving Even Though You Have Suffered Trauma and Abuse
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. A viewer wrote in about how he longed to return to his old self. Today he is in a good marriage but for years he was abused. He is unable to move on and asks how to do so. I give some concrete tools to move...
We Teach People How to Treat Us
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. At every turn in a relationship we are teaching people what is acceptable or not in our dealings with them. Being very aware of what you are allowing in your dynamics with friends, partners, family, bosses and...
Blame versus Responsibility
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. So many confuse these two words. They belong on opposite side of a spectrum. One brings on depression The other raises self esteem and facilitates healing Today I want to address a very simple yet key topic:...
Creating Workplace Relationship Harmony
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. So often the atmosphere within the workplace can shift into a very difficult situation when people are projecting their unresolved family issues onto their coworkers or bosses. Are you parentifying your boss?...
Holiday Survival Guide
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. The holidays can be so contentious for so many. Watch this video to get some good tips and to be able to get through your holiday season as peacefully as possible. Hang in there!!! Today's topic is definitely...
