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FEATURED VIDEO OF THE WEEK: “Breaking the Cycle of Dysfunction: The Buck Stops Here!”
Join Victoria in this week’s featured Empowerment Toolbox video, “Breaking the Cycle of Dysfunction: The Buck Stops Here!” Without awareness and consciousness of the repetition of family patterns and dynamics, change will never happen. In this video on Victoria’s...
FEATURED VIDEO OF THE WEEK: “Blame versus Responsibility”
Join Victoria in this week’s featured Empowerment Toolbox video, “Blame Versus Responsibility” where she shares some insights on the difference of emotions and feelings when it comes dealing with these two states of self-judgement. In this video on Victoria’s YouTube...
FEATURED VIDEO OF THE WEEK: “Get out of your comfort: Zone Change Needed”
Are you avoiding change in your life? Are things staying the same but really should change so that you can live a healthier and happier life? Join Victoria in this week’s featured Empowerment Toolbox video, “Get out of your Comfort: Zone Change Needed” Victoria shares...
FEATURED VIDEO OF THE WEEK: “The Teacher Appears when the Student is Ready”
Join Victoria in this week’s featured Empowerment Toolbox video, “The Teacher Appears when the Student is Ready” for a closer look at how to evoke change in our lives! A lot of us experience blocks when it comes to manifesting change in our lives and are looking for...
Parental Alienation: Devastating Consequences!
Transcribed from my video at youtube.com/askvictoria. N writes in about his "Malicious Mother" who alienated him from his father for 25 years. He is now in the process of reconnecting with this part of his family that he was deprived of. His mother now has amputated...
Borderline Personality: Boundaries and Stop Enabling!
Transcribed from my video at www.youtube.com/askvictoria. L is engaged to a man who has a previous family. He does not set boundaries and he is passive when it comes to dealing with his hurricane borderline personality adult daughter. She is in danger of completely...
Commitment Phobia: The Source and The Way Out
Commitment phobia is a very painful experience both for the one who engages in the pattern and for those who are involved with that person. Usually the art of pushing and pulling and seduction are the domain of the commitment "phobe." The answer dwells deeply in the...
Question re: fear of confrontation
Question Hi Ms. Lorient-Faibish I'm trying to overcome a fear I have with confrontation. When someone does or says something offensive to me, I have trouble voicing my feels to the person, because I usually fear the outcome. I worry about hurting the other person's...
Question re: soul mates
Dear Victoria, I recently met someone who is becoming a very important part of my life. I've never had such a strong connection with anyone before. I know I'm not in love but I do care about him a lot. I'm scared because I've never experienced this before. It's...
Question re: estranged father
Hi Victoria, I recently reunited with my half brothers and sisters. I haven't seen them in over 10 years. I was really happy to see them because we were really close growing up, but were separated when my father moved out of the country. I haven't spoken to him for...